A woman look in the mirror

Why Every Portrait Tells a Lie—And a Truth

Jun 8, 2025

8min Read

A woman look in the mirror
A woman look in the mirror
A woman look in the mirror

What faces reveal, what they hide, and the silent dance between them.


Every time someone looks into a lens, they change.

Their shoulders shift slightly. Their eyes harden or soften. Their mouth pulls into something rehearsed—maybe a smirk, maybe a grin, maybe nothing at all. But that moment, right there, is where the story begins.

Because portraits don’t just show who a person is. They show who they want to be seen as. And that’s where things get interesting.


The Truth That Slips Through


Even in the most curated shots, something real always escapes.

It could be a fleeting expression between shutter clicks. A quiet breath before they reset their pose. A nervous twitch of the fingers. A softness in the eyes when they think no one is watching.

That’s the magic moment. That’s the truth.

Portraits, at their best, aren’t about capturing perfection. They’re about catching the moment someone forgets they’re performing. That tiny slip—that’s where the real story is. And it’s rarely loud. It’s subtle. But once you start noticing it, you can’t stop.


Somewhere in Between


What makes a portrait powerful isn’t just the lighting or the lens—it’s the tension between the lie and the truth.

You see the version of them they’re trying to give you. But if you’re patient enough, if you listen with your eyes, you’ll catch the version they’re afraid to reveal.

And that’s where it gets human. That’s where the connection is.

As a photographer, your job isn’t to strip people bare. It’s to witness both sides. To frame the contrast. To honor the act of being seen.

“A portrait is never just a face. It’s a mask and a mirror—both held at once.”


A Story I Won’t Forget


I once photographed a woman who came in full of fire. She had the walk, the attitude, the model-off-duty look. For the first fifteen minutes, every shot felt forced—perfect, polished, but empty.

Then her phone buzzed. She glanced at it and something shifted. Just for a moment, her jaw tensed. She sighed, and for two seconds, she looked tired. Human. Real.

I didn’t say anything. I just kept shooting. That one frame—the one she didn’t pose for—was the one she ended up choosing.

She said it felt “more her” than any of the others. And that’s stayed with me.


What Portraits Really Do


We think we take portraits to show who people are. But more often, we show who they wish they were. And sometimes, just sometimes, we get lucky—and show both.

So the next time you look at a portrait, don’t just admire the styling or the sharpness or the light. Look for the pause. The shift. The story sitting quietly behind the smile.

Because every portrait tells a lie And every portrait tells a truth, The great ones let you see both.

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Peter Jacobs Photography © 2025

Peter Jacobs Photography © 2025

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